OK, so maybe I don't hate all fruit but I've probably gone a year at a time without eating a piece of fresh fruit. If my 3-year-old didn't love it, I would probably still forget to eat any.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Eating Healthy and Travel

I just realized this is timely for many people who are traveling this upcoming holiday, but it’s on my mind because we just got back from a weekend trip.

Travel is another hard area for me.  I love traveling and part of the fun for me is eating out and picking up gas station snacks.  Plus when we are visiting friends or family, I don’t have control of the menu.  Here are a few tips I have picked up and ideas I’ve had (though we won’t talk about well I implement them):

  • Water, drink more, and buy it if you have to. *Anecdote below
  • Take snacks with you.  This trip, I took along granola bars and Hershey kisses (the lowest point chocolate I’ve found).  It definitely helps me with the temptation to buy candy bars.
  • Take healthy food with you.  I take cereal that I always eat at home.  I hate using points on breakfast.  I don’t love most breakfast foods, and the ones I do like are high in calories and fat.  Depending on the length of the trip, I pack a cooler and take sandwich stuff, carrots and fruit along too.  That gets complicated with replenishing ice and if you are stopping at more than one location, but sometimes it’s worth it.
  • McDonald’s Ice Cream Cones.  Yummy, low-cal, low-fat, inexpensive and the cone seems to cleanse the palate so that you are not left craving more.  We get plain sundaes for Bethany because they are less messy.  When we’ve been on the road a long time and nothing else sounds good, these hit the spot.
  • Grilled chicken sandwiches and salad.  I like Wendy’s (their Grilled Chicken sandwich has a low point Honey Mustard sauce) but most fast places have these now.  Just make sure to get reduced fat dressing and small salads that are primarily vegetables, not fattened up with cheese, eggs, bacon and other yummy things.
  • Control your portions.  When you don’t have control over what you are eating, try to control your portion sizes and load up if there are fruit or vegetable dishes.  Now, when it comes to my grandma’s chicken noodles and mashed potatoes, this advice flies right out the window.
  • Set yourself up for success.  Do some research on your route, and plan your stops.  Beware of what you buy at the grocery store ahead of time, trying to save money.  I have shot myself in the foot by buying snacks that I know we’d like on the road, disregarding the fact that they are high calorie/high fat foods I wouldn’t keep in the house.  A bag of chips might be cheaper than French fries but it’s isn’t any better for my diet. :P
  • Discipline and Endurance.  I need more of this when traveling then I do at home.  There is so much more temptation driving down the road then there is at home, where I would have to load up the girls and seek it out.  Decide before you go to make good decisions, and plan a couple of splurges if it will make the trip more fun for you. ;)

Feel free to chime in with your own favorite ways to cut calories or dollars while traveling.

*Buying water – I personally feel compelled to buy something if I stop at a gas station to use their restroom.  My mom says she taught me this because we usually traveled on minor highways and several times she saw signs at the gas stations that said “If you want us to be here the next time you are, please buy something”.  (That’s probably not a direct quote, but you get the idea.)  For years I bought a Pepsi, even if I didn’t really want one.  It finally occurred to me that if I really wanted water, it is ok to pay for a bottle.  At some point my health needs to matter more than money.  When I travel with Al, we try to utilize rest areas to avoid extra expenses, or fill up the gas tank instead of buying snacks.

Monday, November 15, 2010

Breastfeeding and My Weight Loss – Totally Cheating

***Disclaimer: Every woman is different.  If you choose to breastfeed, you will have to balance your individual needs.  My attitude on this topic is totally derived from my current experience with my own diet.***

In my case, losing weight while breastfeeding is incredibly easy.  My status as “milk cow” raises my metabolism significantly.  (I am very grateful for my supply.  Finally, my body excels at something physical!)  When I decided to go back on Weight Watchers a couple of months ago, my friend recommended that I be aware of cutting back my diet too drastically for fear of jeopardizing my milk supply.  So I tracked my diet for a couple of weeks once my weight had stabilized, just to see how much I was consuming.  Then I cut back a little until I started losing 1-2 pounds a week.  Since that’s a healthy amount to be losing, and my milk supply is good, I am comfortable with the amount of points I am using.

So, just for fun, I checked to see how many points I should be allowed at my current weight if I weren’t breastfeeding.  Are you ready?  24 daily, plus 35 weekly flex points.  How much am I actually allowing myself?  50 daily, plus 35 flex points.  This is why I’m totally cheating.  This is also why I am not going to feel guilty about eating some of that leftover cake.

Now talk to me in 7 months when I am done nursing…  That is going to be one hard transition!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Can I Afford It? Food as a Status Symbol

I grew up in a family of 6.  My dad was a pastor and my mom was a stay-at-home mom.  We had no money.  Really the churches provided houses and we always had food and clothes and school supplies and things beyond our basic needs.  But junk food and eating out were not in the budget.  Then my oldest brother started working a part-time job, and with some of his hard earned money, he would bring home Ding-Dongs and Pepsi.  Or Ice Cream and Pepsi.  And, oh my, what a party we had!  Somewhere along the line, I developed a mindset that the only reason we didn’t eat out or buy junk food was because we couldn’t afford it.

So when I started making money, food became a status symbol to me.  I could afford to eat out or buy donuts and Pepsi for breakfast on my way to school.  It reminds me of times past, when being overweight was a sign that a man could provide himself and his family as much food as they wanted.  Overcoming this attitude is difficult for me.

This is a double whammy issue for me too.  When we talk about our budget and say we don’t have any more money to eat out, it stirs my emotions and makes me want to eat out all that much more.  I don’t even want to think about how much of our credit card debt came from eating out when we thought we could afford it.

It should not matter if we have money to eat out.  For the sake of my health, I can not afford to eat out all the time or keep a lot of junk food in the house.